Do you have a hard time meeting new people? Do you find yourself declining invitations? Follow these strategies and learn how to overcome shyness and become more confident in life! Self-consciousness can be a major factor and a cause of a lack of self-confidence. If you want to overcome shyness and social anxiety, you need to understand that people are not looking at you. Most of them are far too busy looking at themselves. If you are always trying to fit in, you are doing nothing more than wearing yourself out. Not everyone will like you, and this is OK. It’s normal!

Taking care of yourself can totally boost your confidence! Even just small things, like: showering, flossing your teeth and keeping your nails trimmed can make a big difference in how you feel about yourself. To gain confidence and self esteem, find something you enjoy and know you are good at. Focusing on doing this very thing, whatever it is, could help you overcome your shyness. Knowing that you possess some unique quality will boost your self-confidence. It will help you accept yourself – wholeheartedly.

If you don’t start talking to people, you will never stop being shy and awkward! Try to be a bit more talkative and practice talking more openly with friends, family and even complete strangers. Approach others and strike up a conversation. This will give you a chance to meet new people, and you will be facing your fear of talking to others. Making eye contact is one of the best confidence building activities you can do! Direct eye contact helps create a more emotional and meaningful connection. The more eye contact you make, the more interested you seem.

So give yourself a chance and start saying yes to invitations! This will allow you to be around people and socialize with others who share your interests. If you constantly put yourself around people, you will get used to it. And this will definitely help you stop being shy and quiet! By doing these self confidence tips every day, you can slowly overcome shyness and become more confident, until you can publicly display who you are – without fear of being judged.

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  1. I always want to talk about my extreme shyness to the whole world..i don't know how..or will i be able to or not!..but still i don't know why..i am just expressing it over shyness often makes me look awkward and very much wierd in front of others!..everytime i see my friends interacting with others soo nicely and casully..and i am like..what? How can they be comfortable?..and when it comes to me to speak something to the stranger one or someone to whom i haven't talked before, i always end up with something very wierd and then, the whole night is wasted of me regretting of not saying anything due to my shyness..i really don't understand why i am like this?..why do i need so much of time to get comfortable with anyone, unlike other?..however, i try not to be shy or try to come out from my introversion, i never succed! Ppl oftenly feel about me that i must be very much egoistic that i dont even talk to them, but that is never the case..i want to talk to everyone like others do..but i can't, i donno why i get awkward, but i just cant! Otherwise, while chats on social media or gossips with my closed ones, i am actually someone other! I'm so bubly, happiest and a complete entertainer to them!..anyways..i donno if some miracle happens and i could show my real side to each person out their!😅

  2. I'm not shy from birth even since 6 years ago but now I started living with my senior brother, I start being shy even all my friends l have before but male's and females even the ones I have control over start leaving me, I don't know why

  3. I cant even talk to people and when i try they arw like omg she talks and then im back where i started. And its like on instagram im really like not shy at all and post alot and talk alot and will text a whole paragraphs when texting and not stop but in person i dont talk at all and im really akward and i cant overcome it no matter what i do and it causes me stress… just had to say that

  4. I also know problem of some people. In which they have written that when I talk with any girls then my eyes fall on unpleasant place or private part. Because of this’ they avoid ayes contact with every person including man and girl. I have experienced that you avoid viewing porn video for a month. Then You can see change self. I know it’s difficult at starting. Social anxity is kind of two; first is because of shy. Second is because of above reason. I suggest that please stop viewing porn video

  5. i stop being shy when those annoying kid at my school bugs me and my friends . me and my friend always in arguing with people they kept staring at me and my friend in class. i got mad and told them

    you know damn well for a fact the board and the teacher is in the front not in the back .and they will get mad and start a big arguing.and the teacher got mad .i was shy and quiet in 6th grade now i am in 7th grade i am not a drama queen i just don't like people stare at me talk bad about me and my crazy friends

  6. That's a cool video you don't need actaullyyou're a man you have to be a brave in front of girls or your crush. Well I have a solution for shyness and an anxiety behaviour. I have a friend he used to shy with Everyone when he used this Shyness solution now he is a brave man and he doesn't feel any shy with anyone at all. If you really want to remove your silly shyness behaviour here is the solution that my friend used it :

  7. My problem is that I am unable to directly look into people’s eyes when I am trying to converse with them. Embarrassingly, I find my eyes tend to indirectly look at people’s sexual parts, for example, breasts, thighs, penis and so on. This condition occurs with whoever I am having a conversation with, i.e., men, women, young, old, work colleagues friends and relatives. I have no real control over this and I have suffered from this condition 3 month ago. I was about 22 or so. I am gradually bringing my anxiety under control but I would very much like to treat this problem as it would help treat my anxiety and enable me to socialize with people without fear. I would like to know what the problem is and how it can be treated. Thank you.

  8. Yesterday I have attended my interview but I couldn't make it good. I'm so dumb I was not able to speak in the spot moment.. It was so anxiety in that moment. My mind went totally freeze. So I couldn't answer to them. I had so embarrassed. My friend got selected but I ain't. My voice became low volume at that moment when I met something new! In past I didn't participate any activities like seminar and so on. That's tha reason I am suffering right now.. Almost Im loosing my hope. I'm going to quit for searching a job.. Im about to miss my life, my hope, my happiness……..

  9. I'm shy but when I'm whit my friend I am crazy. But in school I'm really shy. I won't talk and laugh, so I'm a stone face God right?

    So some girl ALWAY go up to me and say: why are you so quiet? but when your outside your crazy and full of energy.
    And sometimes my friends just talked to each other like I didn't even exist. But today one of my friends sayd why don't you talk to her (me) ?
    And then she said but she's so quiet.

    So here I am…. But I'm glad thers more than just me here that is shy.❤ and sorry for my bad English, still learning!


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